Perhaps not a politically correct topic in an open blog, but I am risking it anyway.
As some of my readers will have noticed I have an inquisitive mind and often wonder about aspects of the sexual encounters. One thing that I have come to speculated about recently is the way a girl orgasms. I have not until recently had much experienced with other girls orgasms (and don't ask my why that might be case now - that is not presently for disclosure). Guys on the other hand I have some experiences with, but that is all quite straight forward. A build up, different degrees of groaning, a point of no return, spasms and ejaculation followed by an almost universal lack of erection and then relaxation.
But with girls it seems different. Ranging from almost unnoticeable to major convulsions. In my own case I have a long slow build up, very distinct spasms increasing in frequency and intensity until overcome by uncontrollable shaking lasting from a few seconds to up to ten seconds followed by slow aftershakes. Absolutely no way I could hide what is happening to me. I know some girls cannot stand any further touching after that, whereas if I force myself to continue past a short unpleasant moment, I can continue and come again several times.
One of the girls I have been able to observe at close hands explodes with almost no warning, tenses into a foetal position which she cannot get out of for quite some time and certainly wants no further action for a while, whereas another one I knew from earlier in my life broke out in tears when it happened, but that was the only way that you could tell what had happened and she could quite happily let a guy continue past her orgasm with no sensitivity to further touching.
I am wondering why these orgasms are so different. I guess the orgasms are natures way of providing a "carrot" to make us have sex, possibly the spasms aid the movement of the sperm. But in both cases it should theoretically be the same for all.
Are there any of my readers out there who have some thoughts on this subject?
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Saturday, November 21, 2009
Clothes I wear at parties and other public places
I have just read a message from one of my readers who commented on Copenhagen being one of the places in the world where you could spot most girls at public places (Nyhavn and Cafe Victor were mentioned) with no panties or with provocative clothes.
I can't really tell, because I do not have the experience of many other places in the world, but there certainly is some truth in this. Not so much from the younger generations, but perhaps from 30 and upwards. I know several ladies, not exactly friends but close enough for such discussions to take place, who brag to their girlfriends about their encounters and how they dress up, often with no underwear, when they go out.
I have often gone without underwear to parties and to a night out with friends. It is not all that often that the lack of panties have been noticed, but when it does happen it really gets me excited. It is not often that people actually see the lack of panties (at least not mine) at public places like Nyhavn, but accidentally when getting in and out of cars or even better when dancing and the guys let their hands wander over your bum and feel the unencumbered buttocks under the dress.
I find it much easier and slightly less private to dress so that my tits are on display if not careful - which I then can make sure I am not when it suits me. It is much easier for a guy to fondle your tits under a lose top and have some fun out of that, than it is for a guy to actually get a hand up your legs and play with you.
We have become very good friends with a couple we go out with. Both the guys gets excited from their wives dressing daringly in public and will happily assist in creating situations where we can be on display. We let the guys chose the dresses (but often have to restrain them as their wishes easily get out of hand) and then enjoy an evening out showing off. One of those dresses are quite open at the front, and will split open showing bare legs at the top of the stockings, and if I am not careful even more than that. Getting into the seat at a theatre passing the people already sitting down (they don't always stand as they ought to) or getting into a sofa at a party or even at a discotheque will all depending on how brave I am show that I am not wearing panties.
But I am certain that doesn't only happen in Copenhagen.
Hugs Jen
I can't really tell, because I do not have the experience of many other places in the world, but there certainly is some truth in this. Not so much from the younger generations, but perhaps from 30 and upwards. I know several ladies, not exactly friends but close enough for such discussions to take place, who brag to their girlfriends about their encounters and how they dress up, often with no underwear, when they go out.
I have often gone without underwear to parties and to a night out with friends. It is not all that often that the lack of panties have been noticed, but when it does happen it really gets me excited. It is not often that people actually see the lack of panties (at least not mine) at public places like Nyhavn, but accidentally when getting in and out of cars or even better when dancing and the guys let their hands wander over your bum and feel the unencumbered buttocks under the dress.
I find it much easier and slightly less private to dress so that my tits are on display if not careful - which I then can make sure I am not when it suits me. It is much easier for a guy to fondle your tits under a lose top and have some fun out of that, than it is for a guy to actually get a hand up your legs and play with you.
We have become very good friends with a couple we go out with. Both the guys gets excited from their wives dressing daringly in public and will happily assist in creating situations where we can be on display. We let the guys chose the dresses (but often have to restrain them as their wishes easily get out of hand) and then enjoy an evening out showing off. One of those dresses are quite open at the front, and will split open showing bare legs at the top of the stockings, and if I am not careful even more than that. Getting into the seat at a theatre passing the people already sitting down (they don't always stand as they ought to) or getting into a sofa at a party or even at a discotheque will all depending on how brave I am show that I am not wearing panties.
But I am certain that doesn't only happen in Copenhagen.
Hugs Jen
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